Monday, August 21, 2006

Women...Are they inferior?

As the recent Sabarimala controversy continues to rock the country, the priests and women activists anxiously wait for the capricious verdict from the Supreme Court. But what I fail to understand is what is wrong with women entering the holy portal?

The Sabarimala shrine, where women between the ages of 10 and 55 are strictly prohibited, is a shrine to male celibacy. Lord Ayappan is said to be the god of the brahmachari. In that case even married men should not me allowed. If women are allowed into Sabarimala, says the thantri, the entire edifice of the temple will collapse and the very reason for the arduous pilgrimage will be nullified. Under the camouflage of traditions, they want to emphasize that religion is pure and women are dirty. The perverted hatred of woman’s body. Purity….How do you mete this quality? Is purity limited to anatomy? What about integrity of soul? Does that insinuate that men entering the sanctified portal are free of malevolence? Forget the common man, even the so called descendants of God succumb under the pressure of meretricious iniquity.

The deeper question is…Are religions hostile to women? Woman is blessed with the inimitable potential of nurturing a new life in her womb. When the nature itself has bestowed her position next to God, who are we mortals to challenge the decision? This issue is not limited to sabarimala; it extends to day today life as well where womanhood is condemned as sin. In most nuclear families it becomes a period of oppression for the woman when the Ayyappa season begins. The kind of trauma a woman undergoes due to this primitive and distorted belief is not yet being debated. It is a silent scream.

With women attempting revolutionary changes to alter the outlook of society which is primitively male dominated, these religious fallacies prove to be major hurdles. The religions are on collision course with modernity, and unless religions reform themselves, societies will never change. So to change the society we have to instigate people to contemplate, instead of meekly accepting the meaningless customs and traditions. Equality among sexes can achieved only if there is social parity and this can be attained only by changing the mindset of the people.

8 comments:

The Unpaid Analyst said...

It is true that all religions are anti women and anti logic...then why do women still continue to follow such religions? Why dont u hear any voices of protests from a larger section of the female society?....Is it because the women are oppressed or not concerned?

SaiK said...

hey i admire these thoughts .... very much parallel to mine .... well the reason is highly sociological and things would improve with the coming generations ..... damn the preists ... this is against the fundamental rights !!!

Tejas said...

So true! The root of this entire ruckus goes right to the birth of civilization. Every religion has manipulated society in the favour of man. Tell me why is the so-called Jesus, Allah and Krishna a man and not a woman?

But am optimistic as time is a big healer. We should be lucky that we have the Sanias, Kalpana Chawlas and the Barkha Dutts who inspire the next generation.

My advice: Ditch Ayyappa. There are million other Hindu Gods to look upto:)

roy! said...

i completely agree wid tejas...

Anonymous said...

hmmmm......nice article....but aneesha atleast in urban areas no one cares abt a gal or a boy....frankly who follows all the traditions religiously these days!!!!
atleast i dont....

White Knight said...

Very well put. I agree that religions are biased against women. I found out about it when my friend told me that she "didnt" enter the temple coz it was "that time" of her cycle. IF educated females cant challenge these beliefs there is litte hope.

@ tejas,
Sex change operations werent available during the time of jesus, allah or krishna. But we do have saraswathi, laxmi, kali etc

Dr Roshan Radhakrishnan said...

If only life were so easy that we could right all wrongs..eople with their mind in the gutter will ensure women never get equal parity..not in the workplace, not even with God.

Anonymous said...

hey very well put...
completely agree to the aiyappa issue..but anisha educated women fighting for equality of sexes in cities like ours enjoy the special previlages given to them with their chin up!!
i mean take the simple xample of seats reserved for ladies in busses..why????